Meeting the right person at the wrong time is a really rough situation to find yourself in. Even though it seems like this person checks all the boxes, it feels like the entire universe is conspiring to keep you apart. And while you might keep trying to make the relationship work, circumstances seem determined to prevent you … Read more
So many of us are guilty of playing mind games while dating, but we often don’t realize just how problematic they can be. Does this sound familiar? It’s the day after a great first date and you’re rehashing the details with your friends. After getting their collective approval you pick up your phone to text … Read more
Dating over 40 looks undeniably different than dating in your 20s, or even 30s. Society tells us we’re supposed to have found “the one” when we’re young (whatever that means) but that’s nonsense! Everyone has their own path when it comes to finding love—there is no right or wrong time frame. Granted, our lives beyond … Read more
As a clinical psychologist who specializes in couples, young adults, and relationships, I’ve worked with many people who have struggled with dating. When my patients open up about their difficulty finding the right person, they often reveal uncertainty about potential partners in the early stages of dating. In an ideal world, we would go on first dates … Read more
Dating apps have a bad reputation—a lot of people think of them as a way to find a quick hookup you’ll never see again. And, well, some dating apps are meant for exactly that (here’s looking at you, Grindr). But plenty of others are filled with people seeking serious, long-term and committed relationships, and they’re … Read more
Language note: Although individual preferences exist, surveys of the autistic community consistently show that autistic people prefer identity-first language rather than person-first language (i.e., “autistic person” rather than “person with autism”). This article reflects that community language preference. The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders categorizes autism as a neurodevelopmental disorder marked by social and communication … Read more
Astrology is fun, there’s no denying it. Despite it not being based on science, it can be an interesting lens to help us reflect on our personalities and how we might relate to one another. Just make sure you’re taking it with a grain of salt. This is especially important when it comes to considerations … Read more
As temperatures approach freezing territory and bundling up becomes a priority, it may seem like you’ve got to hunker down and endure the frost until spring bounces back—especially as far as dating is concerned! The reality, though, is that winter is actually a great time to fan the flames of your existing bond—and the enchanting backdrop of … Read more
If you believe in old-school relationship advice then there are three tenets: don’t talk about religion, don’t talk about politics, and don’t talk about money. Here at Verywell, we’re not so sure. Finances, especially, are a touchy subject for many people, whether they’re in the early stages of a relationship or have been together for … Read more
Chilly weather brings with it a deep craving for cuddling up and getting close with someone else. If you already have a long-term partner, the whole “popcorn and hot cocoa” on the couch thing is a done deal. However, if you’re currently single—or in some sort of “situationship”—you’ll need to get a bit more creative … Read more