Dating over 40 looks undeniably different than dating in your 20s, or even 30s. Society tells us we’re supposed to have found “the one” when we’re young (whatever that means) but that’s nonsense! Everyone has their own path when it comes to finding love—there is no right or wrong time frame. Granted, our lives beyond … Read more
As a clinical psychologist who specializes in couples, young adults, and relationships, I’ve worked with many people who have struggled with dating. When my patients open up about their difficulty finding the right person, they often reveal uncertainty about potential partners in the early stages of dating. In an ideal world, we would go on first dates … Read more
Dating apps have a bad reputation—a lot of people think of them as a way to find a quick hookup you’ll never see again. And, well, some dating apps are meant for exactly that (here’s looking at you, Grindr). But plenty of others are filled with people seeking serious, long-term and committed relationships, and they’re … Read more
Language note: Although individual preferences exist, surveys of the autistic community consistently show that autistic people prefer identity-first language rather than person-first language (i.e., “autistic person” rather than “person with autism”). This article reflects that community language preference. The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders categorizes autism as a neurodevelopmental disorder marked by social and communication … Read more
Astrology is fun, there’s no denying it. Despite it not being based on science, it can be an interesting lens to help us reflect on our personalities and how we might relate to one another. Just make sure you’re taking it with a grain of salt. This is especially important when it comes to considerations … Read more
As temperatures approach freezing territory and bundling up becomes a priority, it may seem like you’ve got to hunker down and endure the frost until spring bounces back—especially as far as dating is concerned! The reality, though, is that winter is actually a great time to fan the flames of your existing bond—and the enchanting backdrop of … Read more
Chilly weather brings with it a deep craving for cuddling up and getting close with someone else. If you already have a long-term partner, the whole “popcorn and hot cocoa” on the couch thing is a done deal. However, if you’re currently single—or in some sort of “situationship”—you’ll need to get a bit more creative … Read more
If there’s any activity that comes with a whirlwind of emotions, it’s a first date. Regardless of the activity, you’re probably feeling any combination of excitement, nervousness, stress, hope, and a lot more. First dates can be anything from an hour spent having coffee with a stranger you’ll never see again to a full day … Read more
Finding love has its own set of challenges regardless of sexuality or gender identity. But, like it or not, the rules and guidelines of dating in the LGBTQIA+ community are unique. This is why finding a dating app that is tailored to the queer dating experience is so important. Beyond matches asking you to explain your identity, … Read more
First dates can be exciting and unnerving. Asking the right questions can help us get to know the person and connect with them. That being said, asking the wrong questions can kill the mood and make things awkward or uncomfortable. The last thing we want is for the date to feel like an interview or … Read more