When it comes to sex and intimacy, we all have different needs. Regardless of what works for us on an individual level, however, there are some universal truths that are essential to maintaining any kind of sexual relationship—and pleasure is just the tip of the iceberg (pun intended). A healthy connection is one in which … Read more
What do upside-down pineapples, a black ring worn on one’s right hand, and pink flamingos on display in a yard have in common? They’re all signs that a person is into swinging. That’s when a couple—typically a cishet couple, but queer couples as well—enjoy having sex with other people together. Swinging is a form of ethical non-monogamy, and … Read more
Sometimes, relationships last years or decades; whereas, other times they end within a few weeks or months. We’ve been dating someone for a short time but we realize we don’t vibe the way we thought we did, we have different values or goals, or the timing is just off. What’s surprising, however, is that even short-term relationship … Read more
Sexting is the act of exchanging sexually explicit messages, photos, or videos with other people.1 It’s something that can occur at any phase of a romantic connection, whether that’s during the earliest phases of a relationship or casual sex, or in a long-term marriage. Sexting is often a precursor or warm-up to in-person sexual encounters but … Read more
If you’re looking for ways to turn up the heat in the bedroom, dirty talk is a foolproof method. When done right it can get you more turned on and lead to more intimacy with a partner. But let’s be honest, it’s not about doing it right it’s about being comfortable with however it happens. However, while dirty talk … Read more
When people hear the word tantra, they immediately think of marathon sex, or a book full of gymnast-level positions. Some of this is accurate, but it’s only the tip of the iceberg. Tantric massage involves sensual touch and energy release and goes beyond conventional massage techniques. It explores the erotic areas of our body that are highly … Read more
Pucker up! Few and far between is the person who doesn’t like to kiss or be kissed (when it’s consensual)…but when you really think about it, it’s kind of a funny behavior! Even as a person who considers kissing one of her favorite pastimes, I admit I’ve never thought too long or deeply about why … Read more
George and Amal Clooney. Beyonce and Jay Z. George Lucas and Mellody Hobson. Angela Bassett and Courtney Vance. Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively. Michelle and Barack Obama. Victoria and David Beckham. What do each of these couples have in common? They have achieved success in their industries. They have spoken highly of each other. And … Read more
Celibacy is often thought of as the act of avoiding sexual relationships for religious reasons, to remain “pure,” or allow for more time to devote to God. But recently the decision to go celibate for a short or extended period has become a more popular practice without any of the religious connotations. The movement has been pronounced … Read more
For many people, the most challenging part of a breakup is this feeling: reaching for your phone to call your favorite person before quickly realizing you’ve just gone your separate ways. The length of your relationship also doesn’t matter. Whether you were together for a few months or several years, a relationship coming to an … Read more