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There’s an old saying that opposites attract, but does anyone really want to partner with someone who has opposing values, or lifestyle habits? The cozier we can get with a new person, the better our chances of long-term survival as a couple. That said, sometimes too much of a good thing can become a total stomachache. … Read more

Suppose you’re experiencing a rough patch in your romantic relationship, or are finding it difficult to communicate or see eye-to-eye with family members or friends. In that case, you could be having challenges in the realm of relationship dynamics. But while we often hear people talk about “relationship dynamics,” many of us don’t know what … Read more

Discovering your person can feel like a dream come true. That’s why it may catch you off guard when fear unexpectedly creeps in. Intrusive thoughts arise: Would they love me if they really knew me? Is this relationship too good to be true? Will they leave me? Can this last forever? While the anxiety may feel overwhelming, … Read more

A marriage of convenience is just that: a convenient union that lacks the intimacy and connection of a traditional marriage. This type of relationship may work effectively for many reasons. Some cultures value and prefer convenient marriages over love matches, while others find these marriages less satisfying or outright unacceptable. How does one enter into … Read more

Compersion is the experience of enjoying another’s positive experiences. In intimate relationships, compersion refers to the enjoyment of your partner’s erotic, sexual, or romantic encounters with others.1 Often referred to as the opposite of jealousy, it is an experience that many in non-monogamous relationships may relate to. However, it isn’t uncommon for those who are in monogamous relationships as … Read more

A beige flag is a slang relationship term referring to an odd or quirky characteristic, but not one that is innately good or bad. “Flags is a modern term used by people to rate noticeable and more subtle characteristics of a person,” says Allison Fossella, LMHC, LPC, Mental Health Clinical Director of Nice Healthcare. She notes “flags … Read more

Attachment theory suggests that our relationship patterns are significantly influenced by our formative interactions with our earliest caregivers. These early experiences unconsciously lay the groundwork for how we approach intimacy, resulting in secure, anxious, avoidant, or fearful attachment styles. In particular, the avoidant attachment style is commonly characterized by hyper-independence, conflict avoidance, and emotional distance. If you have an avoidant attachment … Read more

When we think of a “break” in a relationship, what comes to mind is generally some kind of temporary separation. Such breaks can serve a variety of purposes. For some couples, it can be a way to get some breathing room if the relationship has reached a boiling point. Time apart can help people calm … Read more

It starts out little by little. You cancel a date night with your partner or spouse to stay late at work. When you get home, you’re too tired to talk, so you sit in front of the TV until it’s time for bed. Soon, there’s no kiss goodbye when one of you leaves the house. … Read more

With friendly and outgoing personalities and a penchant for social situations, it might seem like extroverts would make perfect partners, especially if you happen to be an extrovert too. And this can be true—if you’re an extrovert, chances are you’ll have a natural understanding of what your extroverted partner wants and needs from a relationship. But there … Read more